Oh how I have missed you. I was just thinking of you today. I will say this to you: I appreciate what you're going through. I am personally in the midst of making some MAJOR changes at home as well. It's amazing how you can take on the world when you change your appearance and your OUTLOOK, isn't it? Don't allow Ed to deter you...not ever.
We are here for you!
Yes I know you are....and you are right it is amazing how just by putting on decent clothes(not my rattiest tshirt and ripped up jeans)and some makeup makes me feel so much better.
I you girls....Im really gonna crack down on Ed, im not going to put up with this crap anymore. I married him to love him, be loved by him and create a family. I didnt marry him to have a child, take care of her 100% of the time alone and be more alone than when I was single. If that is they way he wants it then he can leave, it is he who is losing out on us. Im not going to let his negativity bring Kate and I down. We both deserve more than that.
You deserve to be happy! I hope that Ed will straiten his up and realize what he has before its gone.
I am glad your feeling a little bit better physically. Hopefully you can kick the cough soon.. and I am so sorry about Kate's hair.. I would of cried then wanted to beat the MIL.
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“Children are the hands by which we take hold of heaven.”
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If that is they way he wants it then he can leave, it is he who is losing out on us. Im not going to let his negativity bring Kate and I down. We both deserve more than that.
Absolutely! Stand up for yourself and Kate, you are absolutely correct, you deserve every great thing that comes your way. Squash his negativity and create a positive enviroment for you and Kate.
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My uterus is screaming at me to MAKE MORE BABIES!!
Ed needsa serious 'come to Jesus' as my grandma would put it! HE needs to realize that the way he treats you will effect how Kate will look to be treated when she grows up!
I'm sorry you still feel like crab and your MIL is a moron. If he doesn't change, then it may be time to end it. It sucks how it is going for you Lisa. You and Kate most definately deserve better.
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