Why does it have to be that for 3 Christmas's she has made me feel like crap? She thinks I don't hear her talking crap on me? She is whispering and I turn and she stops talking, I know it is about me. Sorry that I am not as skinny and wonderful as Cory's japanese wife. Sorry she calls you mom and I am not "considerate" enough to do so. I will feed Cayten apple jacks whenenver I want. You don't get to decide. At least I don't let him eat a whole BAG off BUTTER LOVERS popcorn. Plain popcorn is good for you, not stuff loaded up with butter and salt, you trying to kill him? I purposely fed him a babe ruth and rice krispie treat in front of you to see what you would say, instead, you just say he is a big boy. He is in the 50 percentile, not a big boy. Stop talking about your weight and how at 125lbs you are overweight. That makes me feel like sh**. I weigh 100 more lbs than you so if you are overweight, I must be morbidly obese. I am not an invalid because I am pg. I can play in the snow, have snowball fights, wrestle with my son, and do whatever else I want. I know my body not you. I know when I have had to much, you don't get to say. Why do you spend less than $2 on me for Christmas and leave the tags on the presents, then spend more $$$ on everyone including Cory's wife and make sure I know it. Do you want to push us away? I can't wait to move out of this state and never visit you. I thought my mom was crazy but at least she knows how to fake her love for certain family members. I despise you. I have never not liked someone so much in my intire life. I go crazy because of you. I hope that I don't see you again until after we have our baby. You WILL NOT be coming to stay at our house when we do have the baby, no matter how much I need it. I would rather die. I hate that you hate me because I am fat and I am white, howlie, or mainlander. When you make comments towards people like that, you are making the comment to me also. You don't know my family. You don't get to talk mean about them. You have only met them 2 times in the last 4 years.
Sorry this turned into a letter or screaming mad vent to her. I just wish I could really say it. I want to but i am too scared of confrontation. If I did, my son wouldn't have a realationship with them and I don't want that. ARGH why can't I just have a nice family.
This totally and utterly sucks! As we were getting ready to leave this horrible place, it started to snow. It is now snowing so hard you can't even see out the windows. My dh thought we could handle it but we couldn't. We slid off the road two times in less than a mile so we headed back to this horrible place. I told dh we should leave earlier but he didn't think so and now I am stuck here. Hopefully we can wait the storm out for the next couple hours. My dad, grandpa, and sister have all offered to come get us. I don't want them to have to but they all have 4 wheel drive, we do not. BLAH! Why me?
I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. It hurts horribly to be compared to someone else and the issue of weight. My parents are the ones who do it to me. I'm constantly being compared to my SIL who's not pregnant and barely weighs 100 lbs. It sucks!!
My uterus is screaming at me to MAKE MORE BABIES!!
I think your husband needs to sit his mother down and explain to her that the racial remarks need to stop. You boy is being partly put down when she makes those comments and will realize it one day and will be hurt by it. I had many friends who were hurt because of people making comments like those. I dated a guy who was part fillipino part hillbilly (that is what his father said he was ) and some of the comments his grandfather and aunts made about his mother, well his brother tore into them at Christmas, he was tired of it. The grandpa said it shouldn't bother them because they were white, denying half of who they are. At least for the grandkids sake she should STFU. If not, you all very well may have to cut ties. I really never like to hear about kids being hurt because of stupidity and just being what they are.
And, so what if you're 'fat', is she upset by that, or because her son isn't attracted to twigs? She probably wanted her son to marry a woman who is her twin.
12-24-2007, 03:39 PM
MIL Vent
) and some of the comments his grandfather and aunts made about his mother, well his brother tore into them at Christmas, he was tired of it. The grandpa said it shouldn't bother them because they were white, denying half of who they are. At least for the grandkids sake she should STFU. If not, you all very well may have to cut ties. I really never like to hear about kids being hurt because of stupidity and just being what they are.
