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Old 12-19-2007, 02:26 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Dear Tony,

Sorry you are feeling "ignored" again. Maybe if you hadn't have said all the things you did when I was pregnant, I wouldn't feel the way I do. I have no sexual desire at all. Period. Sorry, i have been to the Dr., and they tell me it's stress.

I try to minimize my stress, and no matter what I do, it just comes thicker. There is no money. You have told me that time and time again. How about you get off your ass and get a second job? You keep saying you will, but you never do. And don't tell me "no one is hireing" cause there has to be SOME place that will hire you part time.

The kid is sick, and so am I. Sorry that I don't really want to have sex right now. I've been snotted on, and i don't feel good. I know, I know, you tell me there is always an exscuse, and your right, there always is, but things have to get done, and I can't procrastinate like you do.

It REALLY pisses me off that I feel like the only reason you help around the house, is to get laid. You cleaned the kitchen twice yesterday, and all I heard was "I did some of your wifley duties, now take care of me.." SCREW YOU....i am sick, i have a child who is sick, and i'm nurseing a newborn. Sex is the LAST thing on my mind.

In the back of my mind, I still hear all thoes awful things you said to me when I was pregnant, and I can't get over them...sorry....I know you say I'm a different person now, but everything you said still hurts, and that's how it is.

It's 1:30, and I have yet to shower or even brush my teeth yet today, so sorry, your on the end of my list. And the 10:00 thing....yes, if we have a chance to have sex before 10 pm, fine, but after that, I'm tired, and I want to go to sleep....nothing I can do about how tired I am. Maybe if I wasn't so stressed, I could sleep.

Maybe I do need Zoloft....


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Old 12-19-2007, 02:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Old 12-19-2007, 03:07 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I could've written your post about 1000Xs. It is so hard to have young children especially when they are sick and a man that thinks the world revolves around gettin' a little.


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Old 12-19-2007, 03:13 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Old 12-19-2007, 03:20 PM   #5 (permalink)
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now do i go on zoloft, or just deal with the stress?


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Old 12-19-2007, 04:31 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I was on zoloft for like 6 years before we decided to TTC.. I got on it while my parents were going through a divorce and then was never taken off of it... I met DH, got married and things were going great and I never needed to continue taking it, but I did because everytime I tried to stop taking it, I can't really explain it too well, but everything felt fuzzy and I felt slugish.. I was still happy and all but things were just fuzzy and I didn't like that feeling.. so finally when we were TTC, I just stopped taking it and it was rough for the first few weeks but I am SO glad I don't have to take that stupid pill that wasn't doing anything for me anymore but keeping me from feeling fuzzy when I forgot it.. So if you do decide to go on it, I would suggest not making it a permanent fix if possible..
and isn't it funny how they do one little thing around the house, when you do EVERYTHING around the house AND take care of kids and they think they automatically deserve some? hah!


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Old 12-19-2007, 05:09 PM   #7 (permalink)
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isn't it funny how they do one little thing around the house, when you do EVERYTHING around the house AND take care of kids and they think they automatically deserve some? hah!
Don't forget your suppose to praise them and thank them profusely for doing that little thing as well.


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