So most of you know I had a d&c 2 weeks ago (blah). Dh and I were and I said I don't want to get pg yet. We were talking about dif options for bc and I really don't want to go on any form again. I thought I didn't want to try until November or December but I saw Denae's lil guy and I want another one so bad. I definately don't want to try until July or August but that is only a month or two away. None of that really matters to me, what matters is the ttc.
When I got pg with ds, it was easy. I went off bc and 4 weeks later found out I was pg. This time I started ttc in October and found out 7 months later I was finally pg after having no period in November, December, January, and February. Then I get pg and find out it isn't real or not viable. I don't want the disappointment on a monthly basis again. I just want to get pg immediately so I don't have to pee on those blasted sticks every second ARGH! I think that is what is deterring me from ttc again. I don't want to be here 6 months from now saying still no pg. I want to be here 6 months from now saying its a BOY or its a GIRL! ARGH
yes - it sure would be nice if bc wasn't needed and we got pregnant when we wanted, not before we wanted, or 2 weeks, 2 months, 2 years or even in some cases 2 decades after we wanted.
I would recommend staying away from hormonal contraception at this point. Maybe condems? Or possibly temping and just trying to avoid the most likely days you could get pregnant. If you have an erratic cycle, that does make it difficult. But if you are charting, it might make it easier to get preggo when you are ready.
When it comes to temping, I really don't want to. I want to have some fun and if we get pg, we do and if we don't, we don't. I don't want to stress out about it all!
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Originally Posted by Koloe
yes - it sure would be nice if bc wasn't needed and we got pregnant when we wanted, not before we wanted, or 2 weeks, 2 months, 2 years or even in some cases 2 decades after we wanted.
I would recommend staying away from hormonal contraception at this point. Maybe condems? Or possibly temping and just trying to avoid the most likely days you could get pregnant. If you have an erratic cycle, that does make it difficult. But if you are charting, it might make it easier to get preggo when you are ready.
When it comes to temping, I really don't want to. I want to have some fun and if we get pg, we do and if we don't, we don't. I don't want to stress out about it all!
S This time I started ttc in October and found out 7 months later I was finally pg after having no period in November, December, January, and February.
Are your periods usually that irregular? sorry if it's tmi
05-29-2007, 04:25 PM
Blah is all I have to say . . .
and I said I don't want to get pg yet. We were talking about dif options for bc and I really don't want to go on any form again. I thought I didn't want to try until November or December but I saw Denae's lil guy and I want another one so bad. I definately don't want to try until July or August but that is only a month or two away. None of that really matters to me, what matters is the ttc.
yes - it sure would be nice if bc wasn't needed and we got pregnant when we wanted, not before we wanted, or 2 weeks, 2 months, 2 years or even in some cases 2 decades after we wanted.
