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I got the best Christmas present this year!
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I think I need some support.
I am getting so frustrated. I know the little ole addage "Just stop trying so hard, and it will happen"., I have tried that, I know I know "longer than a month". I have tried changing my diet, I know I O, so medicine won't work. Is there anything out there that is suppose to produce a stronger O? Is there really anything that says no caffiene, B/c that is the one thing I still have. I just wished I could get knocked up when I want to get knocked up. For those of you who can't look at DH and get PG (Donna, Chris, and Belinda ), did you do anything different to get your 's. We want another one so bad!!! |
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Advocate of many things.
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Well other than Cade and my m/c, it's never just happened right away for us. Even this pregnancy was the second (possibly third) cycle we had oopsies in my fertile window.
Parker took 3 cycles and Macy took 4 of really trying plus 1 of not preventing.There's no real trick I've discovered as I've seemed to have done it all - Cade was a one-shot deal, Parker was tons and tons of BD for days lol, Macy and this one were taking a BD break for a few days or more and then BDing day before O. Your highest chances of pregnancy are the day before O and 2 days before O (so if you O on a Wed the best chances are BD on Tue and Mon) - those two days each carry about a 25-30% cumulative chance of pregnancy. 3 days before O is only 15% and day of O is only 5%. So I think it's wiser to skip the 3rd day before O since the chances aren't that great anyways and let DH's supply build up a tad and then go for it 2 days and 1 day before O. Other than that I don't think there's any one thing that works. I've always been obsessive about laying there for 30 minutes with my hips up lol - but this time I jumped&dumped literally immediately (I can't believe I even got pregnant like that lol) so I guess everytime is different. I'm sure it will happen soon, I know the waiting sucks! Maybe this cycle will be the ONE! ![]() |
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Working Hard Keeping the Hussy's In Line
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I went off BC six months before we decided we would be trying. So, technically, my body had 6 months to become 'regular' again. Then, that last and final month before we tried, DH was so back and forth and kept changing his mind on me (getting cold feet). Then, closer to O he said, "well, we'll just go with the flow this month and not prevent" and BAM!!! That's all it took! We BD'd on CD 16 in the AM, I O'd on CD 18 and got my BFP on CD 28 at 10 DPO! What are the odds of that?!?!
Here is my chart: ![]() |
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My life is a zoo!?!?!
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With this pregnancy, I got pregnant like five days before my period, I had O the week before so we thought we were in the clear. But to our surprise my period never came and I got a positive on ever PG test I took.
I am sorry you are so stressed, everything will work out and before u know it u will be preggos, I hope this is your month ![]() |
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Giving away FREE crotch extenders -- do I have any takers??
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With Thomas it was a one shot deal, literally
With Lauryn I temped and did OPK. Dh started wearing boxers and we used preseed. I wasn't taking any supps. We Bd'd a lot and the morning I got my + OPK, I made Dh stay home from work and service me![]() |
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DDB's Makeup Expert
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Kaitlyn was also a one shot deal....dont worry so much Tricia that just makes it all worse...it will happen just chill out and relax and the next thing you will know is that you will need to be complaining about having morning sickness. |