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Welcome home baby Lily!!!
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I went to the ob yesterday and my blood pressure is still elevated but not nearly as high as last week.
They did my first cervix check and I'm dialated to 1 cm. and next week I'm having an ultrasound to check size and position. She told me to keep taking it easy and she'll see me next week.I'm so glad to be off from work now. At night I feel a lot better not having to deal with all the drama and stress. I've only had 1 bad headache this past week. I guess this week I'll go ahead and start washing her little outfits in Dreft and getting my bag ready. I had both boys at 38 weeks so it will be soon. My parents told me they won't be up at the hospital when she's born as my dad as hemmoroid problems and my mom has her arthritis and heart issues. They'll probably not be feeling well on that day. Not sure what that has to do with me delivering but whatever. We've already asked a good friend to help out with Hayden and my favorite Aunt told me she would come down if my parents flake on me. Also, my best friend had her baby on Sunday. He was her first and a big boy. 8 lbs. 11 oz. and 22 1/2" long. She ended up having him C-section as he got stuck. We went to see them yesterday and I think it got all of us excited that our baby girl will be here soon. |
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Welcome home baby Lily!!!
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm really ok with my parents. Since the big "blow up" in January I called the counselor again and we've talked through a lot of things....things that we've talked about before but I forgot or just got to stressed out to remember. They will never change...they're 64 years old now so I need to change on how I deal with them and set boundaries. He really thinks a lot of issues with my mom is deep down she's jealous of me and the independence I've always had as an adult. I was the one that approached them with the question of are you going to be there. Once they said that, it's disappointing but I just need to move on. The day of her birth will be a wonderful day for DH and I. We want it to be positive and joyful...really with them there it would make things tense for me and I don't want that. They can come up later or not...really it's their loss as this will be the last grandchild they will ever have We've got friends and other family who are happy for us. |
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