my gut keeps telling me this is a little boy! I have no idea why but I keep getting that feeling. I have only had that feeling one other time and I was right. I figure either way one of the babies will get screwed.... Either Ella is going to be stuck with an older and younger brother close in age or Ethan is going to be stuck with 2 older sisters and 2 younger ones!
Awww, I don't think they will see it like that. You are such a wonderful mother I think they will be happy no matter what. You guys have a very special family and a miracle child on the way.