At the beginning of my pregnancy I really didn’t want to have sex at all. I thought it was because in the beginning I was spotting a little bit and I was scared. Yunior even touching me would turn me off. Now that I am 27 weeks pregnant all I want is sex, but now Yunior is a little freaked out about my belly being so big. This is the first baby for the both of us and he says that it just feels weird even when we are cuddling cause are bellies touch before anything else. I have tried every position in the book to make it work but by the end I am so pissed off that he can’t look at me the way he used to, I just want him to leave me alone. He says that all he can think about is that our son is in there watching everything and he just can’t get into the mood. I don’t even remember how I got pregnant because it has been so long since we have done anything. I know that he thinks I am beautiful and that he is super excited about becoming a dad, but shit I need to be satisfied too.
I am sorry. I wish I had some advice for you but I had the opposite problem with my pregnancy with Tyler. Maybe he could talk to your OB about it so he wont be worried about the baby watching?
My Dh was the same way through most of my pregnancy. It wasnt till the end that when he went to a drs appt with me the dr told him the best thing he could do for me was to because it would help to get my cervix ready. When the dr told him this he was then ok with it....I think deep down he was afraid he would hurt me or the baby, but when the dr gave him the ok, he actually then became a sex maniac when he realized all the extra lubrication pgcy brings. I just wanted to let you know you werent alone, I end up telling my Dh how I felt and that I was feelling alone and sad because of the lack of and that is when he told me he wanted to get the ok from the dr first. Good luck.
My DH did not mind doing it during pregnancy..except at the end when I needed it to bring on labor...Once he knew the baby was down there and I was dilated, he wanted nothing to do with it. I hope you get some luvin soon!
I'm sorry! I know how dang horny I was while pregnant, it kind of sucked. Tell Yunior that if he doesn't take care of you that you'll have to find a way to do it your self.
02-20-2007, 11:22 AM
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because it would help to get my cervix ready. When the dr told him this he was then ok with it....I think deep down he was afraid he would hurt me or the baby, but when the dr gave him the ok, he actually then became a sex maniac when he realized all the extra lubrication pgcy brings. I just wanted to let you know you werent alone, I end up telling my Dh how I felt and that I was feelling alone and sad because of the lack of 
bringing him with to a appointment and have your care provider mention that it's OK to have sex.
