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Canadian Mama
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How do you start. DH and I were discussing this last night. We both want to be able to but when the time comes it just doesn't happen. We are very commfortable with eachother but I guess we have stage fright
If you have any starter tips please share! PS I am not a pervert. LOL |
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Canadian Mama
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I am talking dirty or sweet
Tricia I know what you mean. DH and I were saying we both have a fear that the other one would laugh. It is supposed to highten the experience tremendously (Something we need after having a baby Amanda |
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Advocate of many things.
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We say a few things sometimes, nothing too out there though. You just have to kind of be in the moment. If you're getting really passionate, that would be a good time to say something, maybe nothing too graphic at first hehe! I do say "harder" sometimes, and DH mostly just gives a cacaphone of "yes, yes, yes" I've said pretty dirty things during foreplay before, but usually we both end up laughing our @$$es off lol! (Which is okay too - laughter can be sexy too!) |
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Giving away FREE crotch extenders -- do I have any takers??
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It definately depends on the moment... I'll usually make a comment about how good he smells (when he smells good of course
) and run my fingers thru his hair. Tell him what a turn on it is when he smells good. If he is straight out of the shower I like to tell him how I like it slippery and love his hair wet, how I'd like to "do it" in the rain or under a water fall... I like to grab his tight toosh and tell him just how much I love it, etc. ) Tell him about the last time you masterbated and how you thought of him. You do have to get a little creative to keep it fun and not mundane. We've been together nearly 15 years and married nearly 10. I still think my man is totally sexy |
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