RetromamaJess

I have such a rotten sex life...i never want it and all we do is fight about it..he thinks i'm getting it else where, and i'm not....i'm tired at the end of the day and want to go to sleep...i just don't know what to do to make him happy...oh and BTW...SOMEONE needs to let him know that grabbing my boobs dosen't do it...especially in the kitchen while i'm trying to clean up HIS mess.....

Thanks for the vent...i'm open to ideas....he wants some kind of sexual behavior every other day......

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Amanda05

My dh does this too! anything he can grab he grabs

Are you on the pill? I know with me it put somewhat of a downer on my "moods" Also do you guys invest lots of time in to foreplay? I know for me I need that time. If we don't it takes me forever to finnish what we started.

I am always in the mood these days (probably because I can't have it ) so I don't know what else to tell you. I hope you guys are able to make it fun and worth your while so you want to do it I have also heard that the more you get it the more you want it. I always make sure (when dh was around) to have some fun every couple of days. It got to the point where we were always in the mood HTH!

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Terri

OMG! THIS is exactly what my DH & I have been arguing about too. He wants it every single day! Not to say that I don't want to want it - because I do. I miss the days of BD'ing all the time freely and not planned. But like you so I'm tired and run down at the end of the day and the energy and enthusiasm I use to have just hasn't been there since having Carson.

What I hate about all this is that I'm letting down my husband, my best friend and he doesn't feel as important as he use to. There's a lot that I've put before him and I'm trying to be more focused and to not do that as much. What I have to remember is that he's just as important as Carson is and I need to show it to him more. So I've been making an effort to show more affection and be more loving, and I've made it pretty clear that if he 'wants some' the it absolutely has to be before or around 9pm. Otherwise I'm way to tired.

Moral of my story is sometimes we have to do things we don't necessarily want to do.

Oh and I absolutely HATE being groaped! My DH has been doing the boob grabbing thing with me a lot lately too and DO NOT like it.

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Emma

I know what you mean about being way too tired. My Dh also comes to bed at like 10-11 and expects a little nookey! HELLO, Lauryn will be up in a few hours, let me sleep!! I also had a major problem with my mood on the pill. That's one of the main reasons I got off of it. That could be part of your problem.

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Amanda05

I totally agree with Terri on the before 9pm thing. I am the exact same way. My dh knows not to expect much after that.

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OMG Jessica! I swear you're married to my husband. His excuse he tells me for the grabbing was he was raised Church of God and they believe in the "laying of hands."
I told him most of the time, it's more of a turn off than turn on.

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OMG..are you my twin?? I could have posted that! It's so hard for me because all I want to do is SLEEP. Seriously, I wake up in the morning feeling like I could go back to sleep for another 2 hours and come home and count the minutes until I can go to bed. I hope that as Caleb starts sleeping better so will I and maybe then I will get some of my old energy back. I don't feel depressed or anything I'm just physically exhausted at the end of each day. I don't think my DH totally understands that and we've had to try to reach some sort of compromise (way more than I want, way less than he wants .)

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Jessica

Have you tried having "dates". If you know it's coming you might think about all day and that might help your "mood" This will also help kick dh in gear to help with nightly chores. You will both win in this situation!

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