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I love my boys!!
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Dh and I have been doing really good
He understands i'm the size of the house (a house ) and that it's basically hard for me to do ANYTHING, including just taking a shower. He has really been helping out, and understanding that I'm feeling really overwhelmed. All weekend he has been asking what I would like him to do...etc. He has bleached the front porch, moved the bed we had in Mike's room out, taken him in the pool to give me a break, done ALL the laundry, folded it, and put it away, cleaned up all the toys, and helped me go grocery shopping.Today I knew he wanted to go have a beer with his buddy (He went to a car show yesterday with him, and hung out for a few beers, and I met him later on) and I snapped at him, and didn't say yes, or no. I felt really bad, after all the hard work he is doing around here, but he knew I really didn't want him to go, so he didn't. He stayed here, and we had which was much needed (and really hard being i'm HUGE) He told me he loved me today which shocked me, since he has not said it in a while, and yesterday he rubbed my belly out of no where, which he hasn't really done this time around. He's being really helpful, and more understanding right now...i couldn't be more happy.I'm trying ot make an effort to watch some of his stupid shows that i don't like, because i know it's important to HIM. He has also been making me coffee every morning, which he has never done before. I finally feel like we are getting this marraige thing...only 7 years later... ![]() |
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"Yo Mama!"
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CONGRATS! I know marriage is hard and even hard with all of our pgcy emotions. Something I have been trying to do bc I feel so bad about yelling at dh is writing how I feel down and then either giving to him or having him read it so there is no yelling and most the time we both remain calm and are able to understand each other better.
GOOD LUCK! |
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