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So there you have it..... I'm crazy!!
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I have them. Ugh, never thought I would but they have hit me this past few days. I even admited to DH last night that if I could be guaranteed another baby boy like Ethan I would have another....
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Canadian Mama
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aw Jen
I know how you feel! I would love to have a little girl but no more for me! Maddox is more then enough to handle. Boys are fun! A little girl would be awesome and if I would for sure have a girl I probably would but with my luck it wouldn't happen. I would probably end up with triplet boys are something These feelings are normal. |
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Because I said so, that's why!
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I can't fatham how those of you who just had babies can be wanting another already!
Liriel is 15 months and the idea is just finally having any appeal to me at all. That being said, the agreement was for 1 child for DB and me. So no more "planed" children. I would think are brains are hardwired to want more children. Even when our common sense says "no more". Maybe just have to find other ways to get the baby desires out of our systems. ![]() |
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Future Iron Chef....
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I agree, we are hardwired for motherhood. I absolutely do not want anymore children...but there is still a tiny voice in the back of my head that says, "but what if???"
Ahhh.... and I get to go to a babyshower next weekend, for Adam's cousin and his wife. They are expecting their first!!! |
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Yes... I'm an arcade addict!!
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I agree, I think it is just natural for us to want more children. I don't understand people who say absolutely not. They have to at least think about it sometimes?
DH and I would love to have a large family. Our plan is to wait a few years after Addison is born though. I already know I am going to want another sooner than that though! ![]() |
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Advocate of many things.
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Aw Jen I'm right there with ya, even though I'm losing my mind by the end of most days!
I change my mind about DH getting the big V on a daily basis. I've even brought up the idea of a 4th to him. Even as I say to him "Wouldn't it be nice to have one more girl?" I follow that with, "But it would be crazy to have another" Trust me, that's a vast improvement from Cade and Parker, when at only 5 days postpartum I told DH, "I want another baby. NOW." It's not that I don't feel complete with my 3 because I really do; I feel like this is the family we were meant to have. But it's just hard imagining the days stretched out before you, never to again feel that hitch in your breath as you watch that second line develop on the pregnancy test, or that crazy all-consuming fear of those first few weeks when you're so afraid you're going to lose it, or those first little flutters that you agonize over for hours wondering if it was really the baby or not, and seeing your stomach divide into mountains and plains as baby moves around, and those hours in labor feeling the anticipation of a thousand vacations and holidays all wrapped up into one in anticipating seeing that little face for the first time. *sigh* It's definitely hard to close that chapter, no matter how many babies you've had. I'm trying really hard to focus on the next one though, all of the moments and milestones I can focus on with my 3 little ones. I guess that's all we can do! If only they'd invent one of those electric pet fences, except one for DH to wear around O time ![]() |
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