If you only knew just how awful my conversation/argument with Bill was last week about sex and me not giving it up enough - in his mega horny eyes, of coarse.
Anyway, living through my own argument last week has given me a fresh outlook on this entire topic and I've come to the conclusion (after numerous discussions with Bill) that men need to feel wanted and desired just as much as us. Maybe the fact that you had told him how you're about to *start* - he took that as your clue to 'stay away', so he already had it in his mind that you wouldn't be
and then when you jumped into bed all ready & in your thong without any prior hints or flirting he became upset. I know I'm totally guilty of just sitting back and not showing enough affection during the day/evening, where as he really does show it to me all the time. I hope that makes sense.
Also Jess, the fact that you haven't quite felt like yourself (PMDD) makes this entire situation much more sensative to you.
Take a deep breath and know that this will all blow over soon.
