Maybe I am overreacting.. if I am please tell me so.. I know Dh thinks I am, but of coarse his mom can do no wrong. I don't know if I have gone into detail about the "miracle granddaughter" or not.. but Dh has a niece that was born at 36 weeks making her a preemie
( I roll my eyes because 36 weeks is when babies are classified as preemie, but the girl was born weighing in at 6lbs 3 oz and thrived fine, they use the preemie excuse for everything for this child) and everything gets handed to her from MIL... and no its not because she was a "preemie" but for who knows why, shes just the favorite.. Shes 10, right between Chloe and Rachel. Anyway....I could go on and on on just that alone but here is what I am pissed about. A week ago MIL&FIL asked my girls if they wanted to go to Tennessee with them to see their aunt, uncle and cousins. All cool. Both girls were pscyed to go.. Rachel said something about being home sick in passing, but she knew she would be fine b/c they all, including the niece, went camping for a week with out Dh or I around much, and this trip to TN is just for 3 nights. They were told SEVERAL TIMES to not mention it in front of Becky(The Niece) so she wont get hurt that shes not going.. which god forbid shes only went every other time they go and this is the first time my girls get to go.But still I can respect not saying anything because I know my girls get jealous that she goes.... So Dh and I leave Chloe, Rachel and Ty with MIL so we could do some shopping Wed. about 2 hrs in Chloe calls and says, Ty's asleep (he dont nap, MIL knows Dh dont let him nap) and Rachel is sick, Puke sick mommy.... We come home.. no sooner did I walk in and sit with Rach MIL says, Rach isn't sure if she wants to go now, shes afraid she will get home sick.. I need to know by tonight if shes going to go so if she dont Becky can go. I rolled my eyes, all I have heard about lately is Becky and scoop Rach up and go into the other room. I talked to both Rach and Chloe separate and both their stories match.. MIL started the day with asking Rach if shes sure she wont get home sick. Rach said yea I'll be ok.. later on.. MIL says.. Rachel if you get home sick or sick there is no way we will be able to take you home.. I need to know now if your going to be sick so I can call Becky and have her go in your place... both girls tell me Rachel said Oh ok.. again... MIL asks Rachel yet again.. this time Rachel says I dont know.. a few mins later Rachel says I want to go home I dont feel good.. My Rachel has a very nervous stomach.. after I talked to her when I got home and told her to do what she wanted she told me she didn't want to go. and then she feeling fine.. not sick anymore..
ok.. so in my mind... I feel MIL pressured Rachel so much it made her sick. even worse.. And DH thinks I am making it up... But I think MIL pushed Rach so much knowing that Rach wouldn't go so Becky could go... This happened Wed... I am still LIVID want to tear the woman to shreds pissed! I'm not going to talk to her about b/c I am wrong and shes right and why should I bother even wasting my breath to her because we have gone there before with Becky getting favored..
Thanks for listening..