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Originally Posted by Jessica
If things worked out you could set up boundaries, like rules. You could have control of the relationship and make it feel right for you. Does that make sense? If you had your guards in place it could help prevent you and the boys from being hurt emotionally.
Take a deep breath, say a prayer, and call him. 
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I totally agree with setting up boundaries. It was the best thing I ever did with my mom. Due to his history, I wouldn't leave him alone with the kids. If Tony sees that you are aware of the problems created before and that you will prevent it from happening again maybe he would understand a little better.