My benefits are pretty good for this area. He pays 100% of my insurance premium (which I get reminded alot that it is about $300/month) and I only work 3 days a week now. I have 3 weeks of paid vacation, as well as 3 sick days a year that he pays me for if i don't use them. I don't get pd leave, but i could use my vacation time, and then a couple weeks of no pay, or save save save, and try to be a stay at home mom with the next one. DH REALLY wants the kids closer in age than further, and he REALLY wants another one NOW!! I guess we will just see what happens!!
Thanks for the help!